We all make MISTAKES and learn from them. We are not perfect and can never be. But at least we can make ourselves BETTER. Sometimes we don't try or experience good or new things in life because we have the FEAR OF FAILURE. We are scared of the OUTCOME.

     "LET YOUR FAITH BE BIGGER THAN YOU FEAR"
                                                                           (ANONYMOUS)

     Never waste an opportunity of doing something good or new just because of your fear of failure or scared to try new things. Maybe experiencing that thing will teach you some lessons which will helps you to succeed in life. You just need to have a real PASSION within you. If you lack passion you can not achieve anything in life. N if you have the real passion then nothing can stop you from fulfilling you dreams.
  
          "FAILURE KEEPS YOU HUMBLE, SUCCESS KEEPS YOU GLOWING BUT ONLY FAITH AND DETERMINATION KEEPS YOU GOING"

   Whatever life teaches learn some lesson or gain some knowledge from it. If that
 knowledge does not benefits you in present then it surely will helps you in future. But the most important thing is your

1. EFFORTS 
2. INTEREST.

Without these two things YOU CAN NOT ACHIEVE ANYTHING IN LIFE. Learn from every day experiences. And make sure you make your present and future better with it.

               "I HAVE LEARNED THAT NO MATTERS WHAT HAPPENS , OR HOW BAD IT SEEMS TODAY, LIFE DOES GO ON AND IT WILL BE BETTER TOMORROW"
                                                                                                         ( MAYA ANGELOU)

                                                                                                

   Now if we take a look at how we are effected with these experiences of our daily life . Life experiences brings knowledge to people. Having a lot of good and bad experiences helps us to improve our way of thinking, it opens our mind and teaches us unforgettable lessons about life. Lessons that we have to apply in future. That gives us the idea that how can we spend our lives in a better way. It gives us the better idea about challenges of life.
   Our PAST EXPERIENCES even the things we don't usually think about, continue to impact our daily life in the form of an "INNER VOICE". That inner voice helps us to:

1. BECOME A  BETTER PERSON
2. USING THE PAST EXPERIENCES TO SOLVE THE FUTURE PROBLEMS AND MAKE IT BETTER
3. CREATE BETTER OPPORTUNITIES
4. IT HELPS US TO HEAL PRESENT
5. IT HELPS TO CREATE THE INNER PEACE

    To have a deep view. Let us discuss our present. Now-a-days the young generation have developed or adopted the ways to show what they can do. This so called show of talent in common language is also known as STUNTS. These are performed for fun and enjoyment. But some of the stunts performed, proved to be very dangerous. Even some people lost the battle of life while performing these. So if a person performs some and it happens to be a bad experience for him. Then he should learn a lesson and should not do it again.

 In this way, this experience makes his future better and secure and those of the others around him. His INNER VOICE will help him to recall his past experience and will stop him from doing such things again. But here, it depends on him that whether he learns the lesson and improves himself or let that happening be a total waste.

If some guy performed some stunt and broke his arm. He will learn lesson and will not do it again.

In the video above, you can see a person died because of stupid stunt, and whoever watches this video will learn a lesson and will not do this. So after a bad experiences it depend on the people whether they learn a lesson and improve themselves or not.

          

                "THE ART OF LIFE IS NOT 'CONTROLLING' WHAT HAPPENS TO US, NOT 'USING' WHAT HAPPENED TO US"

                                            (ANONYMOUS)

   Let us take another example of LEARNING from our daily life :
If a child is given small building blocks to construct something with it. He will have some problems in the beginning. The child will not be able to construct something properly as it will be his new experience. Gradually it will develop interest in him and he will start to learn that how can he construct things in a better way with his magical mind.
To see or observe it more properly i gave my little cousin the building blocks. In the beginning, he faced problems buildings the things he wanted to. But after doing it again and again and learning the proper way to do it. He finally succeeded in constructing what he wanted to i.e parking lots and houses.
So the main thing we learn from this example is that the learning is the never ending process. When comes to learning and gaining knowledge for the BETTERMENT OF MANKIND, then gender, age, cast, colour, nothing matters. You learn things through out you life. Whether there is a 1 year old baby or 30 year old mature man, no one can ever escape this circle of learning.
   You are what you choose to become. Never blame you life that you never had a chance to know about something. We make our own chances. We have to make efforts to learn something. IT IS ONLY YOU THAT CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE AND THE PASSION AND FAITH WITHIN YOURSELF WITH WHICH YOU SEE, LEARN, PERCEIVE AND EXPERIENCE.

        "I AM NOT WHAT HAPPENED TO ME, I AM WHAT I CHOOSE TO BECOME"
                                                                                                                                     (JUNG)

 

  Life is like a canvas, we draw different colorful pictures on it conveying some message deep inside them. Similarly life is full of different pictures, memories and experiences. Every new day has a different story, brings a different  memory and a different experience. We all have to mould ourselves according to the curves of life. Facing new challenges and have new dreams, to work and fight for.

           

         "MAKE UR LIVES A MASTERPIECE, YOU ONLY GET ONE CANVAS"

                                                                                                      (E.A. BACCHIANERI)

  Every new day begins with the new sunshine. It depends on us whether we enjoy it or stay inside. Similarly if life gives us an opportunity, it will be our choices whether to avail it or let it go. Things we come across in our daily life teaches us some lessons, providing us opportunities to make our present and future better. The things we experience makes us better in one way or another. We see things, perceive them, have thoughts about them and develop interest in them, we try them or in simpler words we EXPERIENCE them. The output, no matter bad or good provides us with the knowledge. But here, it is our choice whether we want to learn and gain knowledge or not.



       "EVERYTHING IN LIFE COMES TO YOU AS A TEACHER. PAY ATTENTION. LEARN QUICKLY"

                                                                                                      (CHERCHEE SAYING)

   What has life taught you?  Think about all the things you would love to tell yourself if you could travel back in time to give your younger self some advice about life. What you do today is important because you are exchanging a day of your life for it. In life, you usually get what you ask for, but it rarely comes in the package you think it’s supposed to come in.
    Never let one bad day make you feel like you have a bad life.
    Just because today is a hard or a terrible day doesn’t mean tomorrow won’t be the best day of your life.  You just got to get there. If your future seems blur today that doesn't mean that you won't see the light again. You never know what future holds.

To explain this in a simple way. Lets take an example from daily life :
  It is the psychological fact that we are attracted to those things from which we are forbidden. Because it develops our interest to know about it. We want to experience and learn by doing. Some of these can be very dangerous.
   Like a small baby or a kid who is two to three year old is told and forbidden to go near fire or touch hot objects. And this develops his interest and motivates him to experience it. Then he learn by doing. That is when he touches hot objects or fire, he learns that the fire or a hot thing can hurt or burn him. The child remembers it for the rest of his life. So in this way that knowledge he gained by experiencing that benefits him. It helps him to IMPROVE and thus making his future BETTER AND SECURE.
 
 


   "KNOWING IS NOT ENOUGH; WE MUST APPLY.
        BEING WILLING IS NOT ENOUGH; WE MUST DO"
                                                                                 ( LEONARDO DA VINCI)

      From this saying of LEONARDO DA VINCI, we learn two things:

1. KNOWING or having some information about something is not enough. EXPERIENCING it is essential to have complete knowledge about it.
2. PASSION is necessary to achieve something in life. Willing to do something is not enough. We must try it.

     We have to make our ways to achieve something in life. We have to work for it. We create our own OPPORTUNITIES. If we wait for some opportunity to come, then we will be waiting for the rest of our lives. We have to find ways to achieve something. What it means is that at the end of the day YOU are the one responsible for your life. You are the one who has to make the tough decisions. You are the only one who can ACHIEVE your own goals. Those of you out there who are who are waiting for something to happen, please don’t. Life is way too short to wait for someone else to create opportunities for you. Go out and do what you like the most. Your life will be what you make it.